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In a world where personal and spiritual growth are being accelerated substantially, especially with some of the tech out there helping to push the envelope, it is only natural that someone who fully participates in this process, rather than just allowing natural evolution to take its course, is going to find that they are quickly disassociating with those who lag behind. This is one reason, especially for today's couples, and probably more so into the future, that marriage shouldn't be a life-long commitment to one person, because if one moves forward and the other stays put, the emotional and mental gulf betwixt the two will only continue to widen with passing time.

When we fall in love with someone, we create an emotional and mental vibrational bond. If that bond is sufficiently strong (and even sometimes not), we tend toward making the arrangement more permanent (marriage or at least living together). When one of the partners growth is accelerated, perhaps by using Holosync, or perhaps by just getting their act together by taking personal growth programs and working on themselves, if the other partner doesn't also participate, then usually the relationship dissolves because the vibrational match no longer exists. I noticed this personally, very early on in my spiritual growth spurt back in the early '80's - my ex- just couldn't keep up to where I was heading. I think he did try for a while, but the effort (and probably my zeal and voracious appetite for moving forward) eventually took its toll, and we split up. So unless there is a special kind of tolerance where everyone does their own thing, and no expectations are held that the other needs to grow as well, I think many couples eventually decide to move on separately, in one fashion or another. Usually it's the partner who is on the growth path that initiates the break-up, because they become glaringly aware that the other just isn't ready for this, and may never be ready in this lifetime.

The same holds true for other types of relationships - between family members it is especially hard to handle at times - and just as fast as your development progresses, you'll probably find yourself changing friendships and acquaintances more rapidly than most others do. Some of these relationships will continue longer than others, depending on how well atuned you were in first finding that vibrational match. I have very few REAL friends that I had twenty to thirty years ago. One of them, a woman who was my boss in the late 1980's, became a life-long (so far) friend - she recognized at my job interview that I was a person she wanted to keep in her circle, and when I started doing Holosync just over five years ago, she noticed that I was moving forward - and possibly out of reach spiritually - than she was, and she decided to use Holosync as well. So we are still closely matched as friends.

So, Wireless, your changing relationship particularly with your father, is probably due more to your Holosync use than just naturally growing up and away from the family circle. If your relationship with family is strong and loving, though, it is possible to weather this storm, simply by making adjustments within ourselves temporarily while with them, although if we are with them a lot, that tends to wear thin quickly. The same for romantic relationships, and finding someone who can actually keep up with you will probably take some work. It will all depend on whether or not you can also remain flexible enough to enjoy their company at one level, while you push forward at other levels. I think you're beginning to recognize this, by what you wrote.

The other note that I would make on this, is if we truly are accelerating spiritually, our sense of inclusiveness, rather than separateness should also be expanding. So while we can recognize that we will not or cannot accept certain behaviours towards ourselves that abused us in the past, we don't entirely abandon the people we love. Also true, though, that as we form new, more functional, relationships and connections, we will tend not to miss the old connections as much. The other choice, which many also take, is just to do the journey solo - it may be quicker, but it will also have a price tag that some find way too high in emotional and physical cost to bear.